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2WWW.FLIPMAGAZINE.NETNOVEMBER2014 EverDeamtofBecominaPinupIfyouhaveeverdreamtofposingasaclassicpinupofthe1950sasultryvixenofthe1930sor40soravampofthe1920sthenhereisyourchanceCelesteGiulianoPhotographyisafullservicestudiowherecustomvintagestyledportraitsarethespecialty.Overthelast6yearsmyteamandIhavetransformedover1000everydaywomanintosexypinupsWeofferthebestqualityandmostprofessionalpinupphotographyavailable.WhetheritsyourrsttimeposingoryouareaproinfrontofthecameraIcanhelpyoufeelcomfortablerelaxedandcondentasyouaretransformedintoaclassypinup.Allpackagesarecompletelycustomizedtocreateuniqueimagesthatreectyouoryourlovedonespersonalityandinterests.Thephotosareaperfectgiftforabirthdayweddinganniversaryorotherspecialoccasions.Theyarealsoafunanduniquewaytodocumentandcelebratemilestonebirthdaysreachingweightlossgoalspregnancypostpregnancyandnewrelationships.Plustheymakeyoufeelsexyandgiveyoutheopportunitytopamperyourselfforaday3WWW.FLIPMAGAZINE.NETNOVEMBER2014 EDITORJaxTurynaPUBLISHERFrankMonahanDESIGNERSMeredithHancockJennyRiellyILLUSTRATORDeborahFitzGeraldPHOTOGRAPHERSRalphHaseltineMikeCaplanCaplanStudiosOceanidPhotographyBorrowedLightImagesRiverwalkONTHECOVERModelJaxTurynaPhotographerRalphHaseltineMUAHairMariaDAndrealetterfromtheeditorcredits...HiFlipfansWeareveryexcitedaboutournewissueofFlipMMagazine.ThecoverisJaxTurynaphotographedbyRalphHaseltine.Wehaveaspecialtreatinsidethisissuethatyouwillnotwanttomiss.VinceWolfdrewoneofJaxTurynaspinupphotos.Weareveryproudofhisworkandproudtohavehimhisworkinthisissue.Makesuretocheckoutthebeautifulpinuppictorials.Youwontwanttomissanyofthem.WehavealsoincludedsportsbyJayRentvs.OwnbyTKhowtodealwiththeofcebitchDeadGirlsmovieandofcoursethejokesintheback.Youwontwanttomissapagesocheckitalloutandasalwaysletmeknowthethingsyouwouldlikeustoincludeinournextissue.Thankyouforanamazingyearandwelookforwardtoseeingyouallin2015WeareveryexcitedtobeexpandingandbringingtoyoumoreofwhatyouwantSeeyou2015LookforwardtohearingfromyouJaxTurynEditorFlipmPhotographerJeremyDuBrulHairSunnyD.NguyenfromTheBeehiveBoutiqueSalonMake-upMaribethNavarrofromTheBeehiveBoutiqueSalon4WWW.FLIPMAGAZINE.NETNOVEMBER2014 12223016233120243221293314DEALINGWITHTHEOFFICEBH..........................................................7RENTVS.OWN.......................................................................................10BUYINGGIFTSFORWOMEN...................................................................18DEADGIRLS...........................................................................................19NFLSEASONPREDICTIONS.....................................................................26NEWFALLSHOWSWORTHWATCHING.....................................................34JOKES...................................................................................................355WWW.FLIPMAGAZINE.NETNOVEMBER2014 6WWW.FLIPMAGAZINE.NETNOVEMBER2014 BYSTEFANWALCZAKWeallhavethistypeofpersonatwork.Youknowtheonewhojustlovestomakeotherpeoplesquirmandwhoderivesenjoymentfromthesadnessofothers.YouguesseditIamtalkingabouttheofcebitch.owtherstthingthatneedstobeaddressedisthatIamtalkingabouttheofcebitchandnottheofcedick.Theofcedickisofthemalepersuasionandshouldbehandleddifferentlythantheofcebitch.Soleavingtheguysaloneforamomenthereandfocusingontheevilsoullesswomanthatjusthappenstoworkwithyou.HowdoyouhandleherOksoletstakemurderoffthetablehereandforthatmatterallactionsthatcouldbeconsideredillegal.IknowattimesweallwanttotakeabaseballbattoherbutletspresumethatwedonotwanttoendupinjailandhaveaguynamedBubbamakeusthejailhousebitch.NowdontthinkforasecondIdontwantyoutodothingsthatcouldbeconsideredimmoralbecausesometimestogetridofabitchyouneedtogetdownonherlevel.Okayenoughconjectureherethisishowyoutakethatbitchdown.Steponeistoevaluatethesituationandtheperson.Youneedtolearnaboutyourenemyhereandwhatshecaresaboutandvalues.NowIknowIcalledhersoullessearlierbutchancesareshestillholdssomethingdeartoher.Chancesareitishercat.RememberIsaidyoudontwanttoendupinjailsoyoucantkillthecat.Steptwo-turnthatthingsheholdscloseagainsther.Soletstakethecatexamplebecauseletsbehonestitisthemostlikelyscenario.AgainYOUCANTKILLTHECAT.Howeverwhatyoucandoistotakeoneoftheftypicturesofherandthecatandmakecopiesofit.Takethesecopiesanddistributethemaroundtheofcewithsomesortofdirectquotefromthebitch.Thegoalhereistocompletelyembarrassher.Nowyoucancallthismovechildishbutthisisjustanexample.Theoverallplanhereistousewhatshelovesagainsther.Thatistakingthelowroadandgettingonherlevel.IfyouwantedtotakethehighroadhereIsuggestyoujustsuckitupanddealwiththefactthatsheisgoingtocontinuetomakeyourlifehell.Shedidntearnthetitleofofcebitchbecausesheiseasytodealwith.Sotimetogetyourhandsdirtyandmakeherlifehellinstead.DealingwiththeOfceBh7WWW.FLIPMAGAZINE.NETNOVEMBER2014 8WWW.FLIPMAGAZINE.NETNOVEMBER2014 ModelAshtonPhotographerRiverWalkMUAHAbbyZelinski9WWW.FLIPMAGAZINE.NETNOVEMBER2014 Youreenteringadulthoodandyoundyourselfinthegrindofadulthood.Itcanbeveryeasytolosetrackofthelongtermthoughtprocessthatwillguideyoutothebestpossibleretirement.Formostofthecountrytheirhomeistheirlargestasset.WhyrentwhenyoucanownahomeandletsomeoneelseuseyourmoneytoincreasetheirworthHerearethethreethingsyouneedtodosoyoucanbeyourownlandlordSTEP1Talktoamortgagebankingprofessionallikemyselfsoyoucangetprequalied.Wecanhelpyouresearchwhatgrantsandprogramsareavailabletorsttimehomebuyers.ForexampleinIllinoisarsttimehomebuyercanqualifyfortheWelcomeHomeIllinoisgrant.Thisprogramgivesbelowmarketratesandupto7500dollarsforyoutouseforyourdownpaymentandclosingcosts.IwritemanyofthesetransactionsforthebuyersIworkwithhereintheChicagolandarea.Youcanreadmoreaboutitherehttpwelcomehomeillinois.govIfyoudonotliveinIllinoisyoucancheckwithalocalbankingprofessionalinyourareaorlookuponlinewhatgrantsareofferedinyourarea.STEP2Aftertalkingtoalicensedqualiedprofessionallikemeyouwillneedtondsomeonewhocanshowyouhomes.Mostgreatlendershaverealtornetworkstheyworkwithwhoprovidetheservicelevelandcommitmenttoaclientsgoalsthatwillallowyoutoobtainyoursinglebestpurchaseofyouryoungadultlife.Youcanalsoresearchanumberofrealtorsinyourareabyusinganyofthemostknownsiteswhoprovidehomesalesinyourarea.illow.comTrulia.comedn.cometc.STEP3Youreprequalied.Youvegotagreatrealtorwhofoundyouyourdreamhome.Yourereadytobuy.Youllmakeanoffer.YoullprovideadepositknownasearnestmoneyorderanappraisalthroughyourmortgagebankerandinroughlydaysorlessyoutoocanbeahomeownerMostpeoplethinkitsascaryprocessbutitsonlyscaryifyouworkwithpeoplewhoarentknowninthecommunityfortheirworkandarereputable.Talktosomeonelikemyselfwhocanpointyouintherightdirectionwhenitcomestoyourhomebuyingneeds.ForfurtherinformationonourmortgagebankingandrealestateinsiderTKTariqKhwajaandhismortgagebankingbackgroundyoucanresearchhimatthefollowinglinkshttpswww.evolvelpo.comtariq-khwajahttpchicagoagentmagazine.comcurrent-issuevol--whos-tariq-tk-khwajaRENTvs.OWNByTariqKhwajaTK10WWW.FLIPMAGAZINE.NETNOVEMBER2014 LiterayDsisPswasingfoeuthowww.literarydesirespress.cominfoliterarydesirespress.com703.764.8003LiteraryDesiresPressisacceptingsubmissionsofallsub-genresofromanceanderoticnovelsnovellasandshortstories.Wearealsoacceptingself-publishedauthorswhowishtoselltheirpaperbacksandorebooksonlinethroughus.11WWW.FLIPMAGAZINE.NETNOVEMBER2014 12WWW.FLIPMAGAZINE.NETNOVEMBER2014 Model-KittyAndersonPhotographer-OceanidPhotography13WWW.FLIPMAGAZINE.NETNOVEMBER2014 14WWW.FLIPMAGAZINE.NETNOVEMBER2014 AsmanyofyouknowFlipmagazineisahugesupporterofourarmedservicesandabigfanofpin-upphotographyandartworkbothclassicandnew.RecentlyFLiPMagazinepartneredwithgoodfriendsandfrequentcontributorsVincentWolf-ArtistaxTuryna-ModelandalphHaseltine-Photographertobringtoyouanoriginalpieceofpin-upartwork.Thisartworkwillbeauctionedofftobenetthemenandwomenofourarmedservicesinaverygoodandusefulway.AllproceedsfromtheauctionwillbeusedtosendFortheBoysPin-upsfortheTroopsbookstoourheroescurrentlyinVeteransAdministrationHospitalsalloverthecountry.WehopethatyoulovethispieceofartasmuchaswedoandthatyouhelpussupportthosethatgivesomuchtoourcountryPleasevisitourwebsitewww.ipmagazine.netandourFacebookpageatwww.facebook.comipmagazineoftenfrodetailsbeingannouncedverysoonAbouttheArtistVincentWolffVincentWolffisaneartistwhowhileexperiencedinmanytypesofartandmediumspecializesinthefemalegure.Asatraditionalartisthecreatesmostofhisartworkwithgraphitecoloredpenciloracrylicpaint.Wolffcreatesdramaticcontrastsoflightanddarktoaccentuatethenaturalcurvesofthefemalebodyandproduceathree-dimensionalformthatemergesfromitstwodimensionalbackground.Heusesphotographicreferencestocreatehisartworkstrivingtocapturetheindividualbeautyofthemodelasifsheweresittinginfrontoftheviewer.VincentWolffhasbeenpublishedinCarrieLeighsNUDEMagazineFlipmagazineandotherpublications.Youcanseemoreofhisworkathttpvincent-wolff.artistwebsites.comoronFacebookathttpswww.facebook.compagesThe-Female-Figure-Art-of-Vincent-WolffpnreflhcAboutthePhotographerRalphHastletineRalphisaverytalentedphotographerintheChicagoarea.Mostofhisworkisinthelamourgenrehoweverheisveryfamiliarwithalltypesofphotography.HehasbeenpublishedinmanymagazinesnationwideaswellasbeingtheleadphotographerforLATanhereinChicago.Wearepleasedtohavehimaspartofthisprojectandlookforwardtocontinuingworkingwithhiminthefuture.Youcanseemoreofhisworkathttpswww.facebook.compagesalph-Haseltine-PhotographypnreflhcAbouttheModelJaxTurynaJaxTurynaisamodelandactressintheChicagoarea.ShehasbeenpublishedinFlipMagazineseveraltimesandcontinuestobeafanfavoriteInadditiontoworkingcloselywithFlipMagazineshehasbeenpublishedbothnationallyandinternationallyinseveraldifferentmagazinesbookcoversandcommercialadvertisementsYoucanseemoreofherworkatwww.facebook.comtheworldofjax.BEAUTIFULPIN-UPARTWORKBYVINCEWOLFFTOBENEFITTHETROOPS15WWW.FLIPMAGAZINE.NETNOVEMBER2014 ModelJaxTurynaPhotographerRalphHaseltineMUAHMariaDAndrea16WWW.FLIPMAGAZINE.NETNOVEMBER2014 17WWW.FLIPMAGAZINE.NETNOVEMBER2014 Theholidayseasonisofciallyhereandthatmeansthatdreadedtimeofyeartryingtopicktheperfectgiftforthelovedonesinyourlife.FiPMisheretohelpwithsomehelpfulgiftbuyingtipstomakeyourholdiaysjoyfulTip1Therstthingtoconsiderisyourrelationshipwiththewomanmothergirlfriendwifecoworkerbecausewhatsappropriateforonemightnotbeforanother.Notwowomenarealike.Tip2Thinkaboutyourrecipientandherinterests.Ifyouputthoughtintothegiftitwillbemoremeaningful.Tip3UnlessyouknowthiswomanreallywellIwouldntbuyanappliance.PersonallyIwouldntmindImallaboutpracticalgiftsbutyourwomanmightnotappreciatethem.Ifyoubuyastoveorblenderandshedoesntcookshemighttakeoffensetothattoo.Tip4Besensiblewithyourpurchase.Usecommonsense.Ifshestryingtoloseweightdontbuyanyfooditems.Whileshemightloveholidaycookiesorcandyyourenotshowingsupportbymakingthistypeofpurchase.Tip5Budgetisalsosomethingthatneedstobeconsidered.HowmuchdoyouwanttospendIfyoudonthavealotofmoneyyoucanbecreative.Ifyouarethecraftytypeyoucanmakesomething.Sometimesthosearethebestgiftswhenyoucombineyourtalentwithherinterests.Tip6Forsomethingthatcostsnothingatallbutyourtimeyoucouldmakeacouponbookforthingssuchasabackrubhouseholdchoressnuggletimeandthingsofthatnature.Butmakesureyoufollowthroughwiththecouponsasshecashestheminoritwontbesuchagreatgift.Tip7Ifyouwanttogoforbrokethereisalwaysjewelry.Ifshesatravelerputtogetheravacation.OronegiftIveneverheardanyonecomplainoverreceivingisaspagiftcerticate.WhatwomanwouldntwantamassageorsomepamperingByLaciPaigelacipaigeBuyingGiftsForWomen18WWW.FLIPMAGAZINE.NETNOVEMBER2014 WRITTENBYFRANKMONOHANeadirlsanindependentflmhasrecentlybeenmadeavailablethroughOnDemandonmostcablenetworks.ThishorroranthologywillbereleasedonVinovember.FiPMagazineiscoveringthisstorybecauseourveryownJaxTurynaisoneofthestarsofthemovieplayingthecharacterAveryacharacterinthesecondofthreeshortstoriesthatmakeupthemovie.Eachofthestoriesareaboutabusedandforsakengirlswhoreturnfromthedeadtotaketheirrevenge.ThissynopsisprovidedbytheproductioncompanyRoughCutFilmsexplainstheplotandcharactersbest.Aliceisatransientrunawaywhoseeksrefugeinadarkoldhousewhereshemeetsamostunusualyounggirlwithdarkpowers.Thisintroducesustoourthreeshortstories.OVERMYDEADBODY-Suzyisasweetyoungwomanwhogivesherheartawaytooeasily.Travisisagood-timingyoungmanwhosecavalierattitudeaboutawomansheartisabouttogethimintoserioustrouble.WhenhisformergirlfriendshowsupathisbigopenhousepartySuzycanseeTravistruenature.ButTravisbeingaguytriestohavehiscakeandeatittoo.Suzywontsharehimwithanyone.TravistriestoexplainaccidentallykillingSuzy.WithahousefullofguestsandhisoldamevyingforhisattentionTravisdoeswhatcomesnaturallyandgetsridofthebody.OnlySuzywontbegottenridofsoeasily.THETAPHISNEVERDIE-Averyisabright-eyedcollegestudentmorefocusedonbooksandgradesthanboysandparties.WhenherMotherconvinceshertorushforheroldsororityThetaPhiAveryhasnochoicebuttopursuelifeasasororitysister.ThetaPhiistheschoolshottestmostexclusivesororityandthecurrentmembersarentgoingtoletanerdygirllikeAverytainttheirimagejustbecauseshesalegacy.ThesistersstageamockvoodooceremonytoscareAveryaway.Onlyitgoeshorriblyhorriblywrong.WithAverysdeadbodyontheirhandsandjailintheirfuturethesistersdumpthebodyandsweartoasecrettheywillcarrytotheirgraves.VENGEANCEISMINE-MaggieisayoungwomanwhohasbeenloyaltothefaithallherlifeevenaftertheParishpriestbegantosexuallyabuseher.Nowthatshes18andnolongerholdsanyappealtothegoodFathersherealizeswhathashappened.ShepraysforhelpseekstheguidanceoftheMotherSuperiorbutnoonewillbelieveorlistentoher.WithnohopeleftMaggieturnstosomeonesheneverconsideredbeforeandwithhisguidancediscoversitreallyispossibletogetwhatshewants.FiPMagazinecaughtupwithourEditoraxTurynaandaskedheracoupleofquestionsaboutworkingonthisflm.FlipWhatpartdidyouplayinthemovieJaxJaxIwasinthesecondstoryThetaPhisNeverDie.FlipWhodidyouplayinthemovieJaxIplayedaveryfuncharacterhernamewasDanielle.IlovedplayingDanielle.YoullhavetoseethemovietounderstandDanielleJFlipWhatdidyoulikebestaboutworkingonthismovieJaxIlovedworkingonthismovie.Itwasgreatfunbutthebestpartwashowclosethecastandcrewgotwhileworkingonthismovie.Weworkedlongandveryunconventionalhoursandthisreallybroughtthecastcrewveryclose.ItisobvioustoushereatFLiPthatJaxhadablastworkingonthisflm.axhasscreenedthemoviethismovieandshesaysitsdefnitelyworthseeing.AnyonewholikesagreathorroranthologywilllovethismovieshotentirelyinChicagoCheckitoutandletusknowwhatyouthink.DeadGirlsRevengeNeverLookedSoGood19WWW.FLIPMAGAZINE.NETNOVEMBER2014 ModelStephanieSmithPhotographerMikeCaplanCaplanStudiosMake-upArtistMake-upbyMaryamBokhariHairArtistReneeRomito20WWW.FLIPMAGAZINE.NETNOVEMBER2014 ModelJaxJurynaPhotographerMikeCaplanCaplanStudiosMake-upArtistMake-upbyMaryamBokhariHairArtistAshleyOlk21WWW.FLIPMAGAZINE.NETNOVEMBER2014 ModelAshleyOlkPhotographerMikeCaplanCaplanStudiosHairArtistAshleyOlkMake-upArtistMake-upbyMaryamBokhari22WWW.FLIPMAGAZINE.NETNOVEMBER2014 ModelRachelBrassPhotographerMikeCaplanCaplanStudiosMake-upHairArtistWendyWard23WWW.FLIPMAGAZINE.NETNOVEMBER2014 ModelHazelRheaPhotographerMikeCaplanCaplanStudiosMake-upHairArtistLaraRichardsonAriaziSalon24WWW.FLIPMAGAZINE.NETNOVEMBER2014 25WWW.FLIPMAGAZINE.NETNOVEMBER2014 kitsofcialIdespiseeBronamesIthoughtitmightbetheavaliersatrstwhenhecameintheleaguebutthenheleftanyonerememberTheDecisiondebacleandIwascoolwiththem.IthoughtitmightbetheHeatbutthenheleftthereandIdontmindthemasmuchstilldislikeBoshandhisgoofyantics.NowhesbackonClevelandandIndmyselfhatingthemagain.TheonlyconstanthereisLeBron.Ithinkhesafraud.Alwayshaveandalwayswill.Heplayseveryinterviewandmakeseveryoff-courtbasketballdecisionwiththehopesofmarketinghisbrandakamakinglotsofmoney.nthecourthesaTopall-timeplayerandthegreatesttalenttocomeintotheleagueinalongtime.ThatactuallypainedmetosaysowithoutfurtheradoFlipwouldliketounveilour-BAseasonpreviewEasterNConfereNCEPredictions1ClevelandCavaliersBarringamajorinjurytoJamesorKevinLoveIdontseehowanyoneintheEastchallengesClevelandthisyearforthetopspot.Talentedanddeep.2ChicagoBullsIknowthisisscaryforBullsfanstohearbuttheseasonrestsonDerrickRosesreconstructedkneeagainTheywillgoasfarashetakesthemandhavethetalenttowinitallaftersigningPauGasol.2014-15NBASeasonPlayoffPredictionsByJaySchuster26WWW.FLIPMAGAZINE.NETNOVEMBER2014 3WashingtonWizardsKeptthesamecoreintactwithJohnWallNeneandMarcinortatandhavenowaddedthescoringpunchtheylackedbysigningPiercethisoffseason.TheTruthshouldhelpthemcomeplayofftime.4TorontoRaptorsTheRaptorstriedtotanklastseasonbytradingRudyGayawaybutafunnythinghappenedtheystartedtowinandkeptonwinning.Theyshouldbeabletobuildoffofthatmomentumthisseason.5MiamiHeatosingeBronisobviouslydifculttoovercomebuttheHeatisnotdecimatedbyanymeans.Theyre-signedwyaneWadeandhrisBoshandalsosignedLuolDengthisoffseason.6IndianaPacersPauleorgesleginjuryinTeamSAspracticethisoffseasonwasbothgruesomeandaseason-killerforIndiana.ToughtoloseyourbestplayerinthisyearsrevampedEasternConference.7CharlotteHornetsWhoknewAlJeffersonwasgoingtotransformtheHornetsfromabunchofmistsintoaplayoffteamlastseasonThisteamisyoungandup-and-comingandcouldbedangerousagaincomeplayofftimes.8BrooklynNetsLostPaulPiercetotheWizardsinfreeagencyandhaventimprovedmuch.Theyareaplayoffbubbleteamatbestanda1stroundknockouteitherway.WesternConferencePredictions1SanAntonioSpursReigningNBAchampsandTimDuncandecidedtocomebackandplayagainthisseasonnoughsaid2OklahomaCityThunderWewouldntbesurprisedifthisistheyearthattheynallytakeoverstfromSanAntoniothetopspotsaregoingtobeadogghtintheWest.3LosAngelesClippersThisisabigseasoncomingupfortheClippers.hrisPaulBlakerifnandcompanyarestackedandneedtomakeachampionshippushthisyear.Ifnottheymayneedtoconsiderblowingthisupsoon.4HoustonRocketsHoustontriedlikeallhelltoimprovethisoffseason.TheytriedtosignCarmelotheytriedtosignBoshtheywhiffedonbothofthem.LosingParsonstoDallashurts.ItsatoughoffseasonfortheRockets.5MemphisGrizzliesTheGrizzliesareoneofthestrangestteamsintheleague.Theyhaveatonoftalentbutfeelliketheyareonthewaydownaswell.6GoldenStateWarriorsAlwayshaveapuncherschancetowinaplayoffseriesortwowiththelayThompsonStephurryduoshooting3s.7DallasMavericksSigninghandlerParsonsawayfromHoustonintheoffseasonwasasmartmove.ThisshouldhelptakesomepressureoffofDirkhavingtocreatehisownoffensesomuch.8NewOrleansPelicansThisseedforthePelicansiscompletelydependentuponAnthonyDavishealth.Ifhegetshurtforanyextendedperiodoftimetheyfalloffthemapcompletely.AlsostilltheworstteamnamebyfarPlayoffsEasternConferenceChampionsClevelandCavaliersWesternConferenceChampionsSanAntonioSpursNBAChampionsSanAntonioSpurs27WWW.FLIPMAGAZINE.NETNOVEMBER2014 Youvejustputthenishingtouchesonyourbook...ctionnon-ctionorchildrensbookandnowyouwanttobepublished.AtRocketScienceProductionswellpersonallyhelpyouthroughthemaze...givingyourworktheattentionitdeservesandgivingyoufullcontrolofthepublishingprocessandprots.ToarrangeforaFREEpersonalconsultationemailusatbepublishedrocketscienceproductions.comLLC28WWW.FLIPMAGAZINE.NETNOVEMBER2014 ModelKarissaOsbornPhotographerBorrowedLightImages29WWW.FLIPMAGAZINE.NETNOVEMBER2014 ModelEvaPaunoffPhotographerBorrowedLightImages30WWW.FLIPMAGAZINE.NETNOVEMBER2014 ModelGinaPerkinsPhotographerBorrowedLightImages ModelCaseyChesneyPhotographerBorrowedLightImages32WWW.FLIPMAGAZINE.NETNOVEMBER2014 ModelScarlettReneePhotographerBorrowedLightImagesModelScarlettReneePhotographerBorrowedLightImages33WWW.FLIPMAGAZINE.NETNOVEMBER2014 ItsthattimeoftheyearwhenweareintroducedtonewTVshows.SomeareheretostayandotherslikeFoxsrealityseriesUtopiagetcanceledinaheartbeat.Amongthenewfallshowsinwhatseemstobetheyearofthecomicbookbasedshowsthereareafewthatwearehopingtoseemoreof.GOTHAMFoxsTHAMisdescribedasthestoryoffutureGothampolicecommissionerJimGordon.Thiscrimedramahasnotdisappointed.TheshowhasengagedtheaudiencefromthestartandhasdoneagreatjobintellingtheoriginstoriesofseveralofthecomicsvillainsincludingCatwomanandthePenguin.THEFLASHThehighlyanticipatedAWspin-offtellsthestoryofforensicscientistBarryAllenwhoafterbeingstruckbylightningandthrownintoacomacomesbackasthefastestmanaliveandwiththeambitiontobecomeasuperhero.CWdidagreatjobinmarketingtheshowwithpreviewsthatledtheaudiencesexpectationsveryhigh.AlthoughsomesaythatthedialogueisabitcheesyCWisknowntolistentotheaudienceandmakeimprovementswhereneeded.Weareprettysurethisshowisheretostay.CONSTANTINEThishorror-dramabasedontheHellblazercomicbooktellsthestoryofJohnConstantineademonhunterwhostruggleswithhisfaith.TheshowhasaSupernaturalsTVshowvibewhichisnotabadthingbutcouldbemoreunique.omparedtothersttwocomicbookbasedshowsitsnotthestrongestbutithaspotentialandwestillwantmore.CRISTELAGettingawayfromthecomicbookbasedshowswehaveacomedythatisdenitelyworthwatching.ABCsfamilysitcomstaringcomedianCristelaAlonzoisfunnyandentertainingforthewholefamily.Cristelaisalawstudentwholiveswithhersisterandfamily.Cristellatakesonanunpaidinternshipatalawrmwhereshehasaveryuniquebossandaninterestingworksetting.NEWFALLSHOWSWORTHCATCHINGbyDanieleLanzarotta34WWW.FLIPMAGAZINE.NETNOVEMBER2014 Margewascheatingonherhusbandwithanothermanwhentheyheardanoiseonthestairs.OhmyGodyourhusbandishomeWhatamIgoingtodoJuststayinbedwithme.Hesprobablysodrunkhesnotgoingtonoticeyou.SureenoughMargeshusbandcrawledintobedbutashepulledupthecoversheexposedsixfeet.Honeyheyelled.WhatthehellisgoingonIseesixfeetattheendofthebedDearyouresodrunkyoucantcount.Ifyoudontbelievemecountthemagain.Thehusbandgotoutofbedandcounted.Onetwothreefour.Bydamnyourerightdear.Aguywalksintoabarsitsdownandhasadrink.SuddenlyamanhollersathimIscrewedyourmomlastnightDisturbedthemantriestoignorehim.AgainhehearsYourmomwasgoodinbedlastnightAgainhetriestoignoreit.ThemanisjustabouttospeakagainbuttheguystopshimandsaysDadgohomeyouredrunkQWhatsthescienticnameforViagraAMycoxafailinBlondeDocyouvegottahelpme.Ikeephearingvoices.DocWhenareyouhearingthesevoicesBlondeWhenImonthetelephone.QWhatsthedierencebetweenasaloonandanelephantfartAOnesabarroomandtheotherisaBAROOOOM35WWW.FLIPMAGAZINE.NETNOVEMBER2014 ThisFLiPpagebroughttoyouby. LiterayDsisPswasingfoeuthowww.literarydesirespress.cominfoliterarydesirespress.com703.764.8003LiteraryDesiresPressisacceptingsubmissionsofallsub-genresofromanceanderoticnovelsnovellasandshortstories.Wearealsoacceptingself-publishedauthorswhowishtoselltheirpaperbacksandorebooksonlinethroughus. EverDeamtofBecominaPinupIfyouhaveeverdreamtofposingasaclassicpinupofthe1950sasultryvixenofthe1930sor40soravampofthe1920sthenhereisyourchanceCelesteGiulianoPhotographyisafullservicestudiowherecustomvintagestyledportraitsarethespecialty.Overthelast6yearsmyteamandIhavetransformedover1000everydaywomanintosexypinupsWeofferthebestqualityandmostprofessionalpinupphotographyavailable.WhetheritsyourrsttimeposingoryouareaproinfrontofthecameraIcanhelpyoufeelcomfortablerelaxedandcondentasyouaretransformedintoaclassypinup.Allpackagesarecompletelycustomizedtocreateuniqueimagesthatreectyouoryourlovedonespersonalityandinterests.Thephotosareaperfectgiftforabirthdayweddinganniversaryorotherspecialoccasions.Theyarealsoafunanduniquewaytodocumentandcelebratemilestonebirthdaysreachingweightlossgoalspregnancypostpregnancyandnewrelationships.Plustheymakeyoufeelsexyandgiveyoutheopportunitytopamperyourselfforaday LetterfromtheEditorHelloFLiPMagazineReadersThisNovemberissueofFLiPWMagazinesaimistohelpprepareyoufortheupcomingholidayseasonTheRootofThanksgivingReworkingOurGrasponGratituderemindsusofthetruemeaningoftheholidayandevenincludessuggestedexercisesingratitudetogetyoumoreinthespiritofgiving.TheArtoftheExoticPalateTryingandDecliningNewFoodswithGraceteachesustheproperwaytotryvariouscuisineswhileFashionForAllSeasonsgivesusanexclusiveglimpseintotheworldoffashiondesignandcostumingforanytimeofyear.WealsohadagreattimeputtingtogetherafeaturedphotoshootforourLooklikeaModel8SimpleTipsforPosingforPicturesarticlewhichprovidespointersforallthoseanticipatedfamilyphotosovertheholidays.IveusedoneofourbehindthescenesshotsfromthatsetasmyLetterFromTheEditorimagetogiveyouasneakpeakofwhatstocome.WithHalloweenbehindusitistimetoturninwardandreectontheyearwevehadthusfarandbeginourownpersonalpreparationsforthenewyear.AssuchIampleasedtoannouncecomeJanuary2015IwillbetakingoverasEditorinChiefofbothFLiPWandMMagazines.Ourmagazinewillcontinuetoprovideinsightfuledgyfunandinformativearticlestochallengeyourmindandbodybutwillnowalsoaimtobetterbridgetheinterestsofmenandwomen.Iamtrulylookingforwardtothisnewrole.InthemeantimeIwouldlovetohearfromourreaders.Ifyouthinkyoumighthaveasubjectarticleeditorialoreventthatcouldinterestuspleasefeelfreetoreachmeatalexisnicholsipmagazine.net.IhopethisissueinspiresencouragesandfulllsyouasmuchasitdoesallofushereatFLiPWMagazine.SowhatareyouwaitingforFliponthroughthepagesofFLiPMagazineAlexisNicholsFLiPWMagazineEditorBehindtheScenesPhotoByShaunYenHairandMakeupbyKrystleGlennSalonLaFontainewww.shaunyenphotography.com4WWW.FLIPMAGAZINE.NETNOVEMBER2014 EDITORAlexisNicholsPUBLISHERFrankMonahanDESIGNERSMeredithHancockJennyRiellyPHOTOGRAPHERSAndrewNimrodHarveyBranmanwww.harveybranman.comShaunYenPhotographywww.shaunyenphotography.comCREDITS...LOVEYOURSKININSPIRINGQUOTESAREYOUHOTSEXYORCUTE....................................................10THEROOTOFTHANKSGIVING.....................................................12MAKEUPFORANIGHTOUT........................................................30RECIPE......................................................................................32QA..........................................................................................34THEARTOFTHEEXOTICPALATELookLikeAModelHowToPoseForPicturesFASHIONFORALLSEASONS12820ONTHECOVERPhotographerAndrewNimrodHairandMakeupArtistAngelaLaRosewww.angelalarose.comWardrobeAeriRosewww.aerirose.comModelAlexisNicholswww.alexisnichols.com1422DoDont5WWW.FLIPMAGAZINE.NETNOVEMBER2014 Everyyeartherecomesadaythatpeopleacrossthecountrygreetwithacombinationofanticipa-tionandexasperation.Shoppinglistsareperfectedstrategicplansarelaidoutandthealarmissetforjustbeforedaybreakinpreparationforthebusydayahead.NoImnotreferringtoThanksgivingDaybutrathertothedayafter.WithintheUnitedStatesBlackFridayhasbecomeaswidelyanticipatedasThanksgivingitself.Departmentandsuperstoresspendweekspreparingfortheinuxofcustomersstampedingforthebestdealsbeforetheholidays.ThisdayisreferredtoasBlackFridaybecausethesalesmadeonthatdayaloneareenoughtodrivebusinessesoutoftheredinwhichtheyexperiencenanciallossandintotheblackwhereintheyturnaprot.Mil-lionsofdollarsarespentonadvertisingmeanttodriveustheconsumersintostoresironicallyjustonedayafterwehavegatheredtogivethanksforwhatwehave.Sowhatdoesthissayaboutourun-derstandingofgratitudeasacultureTheThanksgivingholidayiscelebratedeachyeartocommemorateatimewhenimmigrantsnewlyarrivedinthiscountryfoundthemselvesinatightspotandweretreatedwithgenerositybystrangerswhoknewnothingofthemortheircustoms.ItisworthrecognizingthatthisearlygoodwillonthepartoftheNativeAmericanswasnotasingleactofkindnessbutratheranextensionoftheirbroaderTheRootofThanksgivingReworkingourgraspongratitudeByHannahM.Borababyworldview.OneofthefoundationsofNativeAmericancul-tureistheprincipleofabundancethebeliefthattheEarthandGreatSpiritprovideforall.Thisbeliefleadstoaprofoundsenseofcommunitywhichal-lowsfortheinclusionandacceptanceofthosewhoaredifferent.RatherthanhoardingtheirsuppliesNativeAmericanswereabletoopentheirheartsandwillinglygivetothoseinneed.Whatismoreakeypartoftheprincipleofabundanceistakingonlythatwhichisnecessaryandleavingtherestbehindforotherstobenetfrom.Incontrastourowncultureispredominantlyfo-cusedonacquisition.Weareconstantlyputtingourenergiestowardsamassingmore--moremoneymorepowermorepossessionsmoreconnectionsmoreattentionandmorevalidation.Wehavelosttouchwiththepowerofsimplicityandtheknowledgethatourneedsarebeingtakencareof.Becauseofthisitseemsourhungerformoreisneversatised.Fur-thermorethisconstantfeelingofnothavingenoughmakesusjealousoftheresourcesthatareavailableleadingtoasenseofcompetitionandjudgmentto-wardsthoseweviewasathreat.Gratitudeifexpe-riencedatallisaeetingemotionsoonreplacedbydesireforperfection.ThisholidayseasonIinviteourreaderstositwiththeideaofgratitudeformorethanasingleday.Ex-plorewhatitmeanstobethankfulinourownlivesandhowwemayintroducethenotionmorethor-oughlyintoourperceptionofthehumanexperience.Thisdoesnotmeandenyingthefactthatlifeisdif-6WWW.FLIPMAGAZINE.NETNOVEMBER2014 HannahM.BorababylivesinAshevilleNorthCarolina.ThereamongtheBlueRidgeMountainssheworksinchilddevelopmentstudiesyogaandnutritionhelpsfacilitateho-listichealingworkshopsandishardatworkonherfrstnovel.Hannahdrawsherinspirationfromvariousschoolsofmindfulnesspracticeintegrativehealthandalternativeliv-ing.Shehailsfromalonglineofhealersandfeelsgratefultobecarryingonthetradition.cultbecauseitis.Howweapproachthatstrugglehoweverdependsmoreonourattitudethanthespe-ciccircumstancesinwhichwendourselves.Whenwefocusonwhatwebelieveislackingweloseoutonthejoythatcomesfromacknowledgingwhatwehaveandallowingthatawarenesstopermeateourexperience.Nurturingasenseofgratitudeneednotwaituntilwehaveeverythingwethinkwewant.In-steaditcomesfromreleasingtheperfectfantasyweholdaboveourauthenticselvesandfromlettinggoofthestoriesthatcloudourexperience--youknowtheonesthatsayIllbehappyjustassoonasTruegratitudecomeswithacceptingimperfectionasapartoflife.Whenwechoosetofeelappreciationfortheles-sonsthatemergefromourexperienceofhardshipgrowthinevitablyfollows.Likethepilgrimsofyoreitisimportantforustoreleasethevictimmentalitykeepingusinthecoldlongenoughtorecognizethewealthofresourcesaroundusandfeelempoweredtomakeuseofthem.Nomatterwhatyoumighthaveonyourplateornotasthecasemaybethereisalwaysawaythroughforthosewhoremainappreciativeandopentothepossibilities.Asyoudwellinaplaceofgratitudeyouwilldis-coverwithinyourselfagreatercapacityforgeneros-ityandcompassion.Ifmorepeoplecouldrecognizetheabundanceintheirlivesratherthangraspingformorejustimagineallthatwouldbeaccomplishedasthatenergybecomesdirectedinserviceofoth-ers.Sogoonallowyourselftobethankful.Taketimeeachdaytoappreciatethemanywonderfulthingsthatllyourlifebeitgoodfriendsgoodfamilyoragoodviewofthesunset.ThesearesomeexercisestohelpnurtureasenseofgratitudeinyourlifeThe30-dayChallengeEverydayforthemonthofNovemberoranymonthofyourchoicewriteaFacebookposttweetorjournalentrylisting3thingsforwhichyoufeelgrateful.Asanaddedchallengetrynottorepeatitemsonyourlistpickingthreenewthingseachday.BedtimeBlessingsEverynightbeforeyougotobedllapageinyourjournalwithalistofthingsforwhichyoufeelgrateful.Thiswillllyouwithasenseofwell-beingthatyoursubconsciouswillletmarinateasyouexperienceregenerativerest.Firstthinginthemorningyoucanreadoveryourlistputtingyourselfinapositivemindsettobeginyourday.Red-lightReminderWeallfeelalittlefrustratedwhenforcedtowaitataredlight.Insteadofgivingthatfrustra-tionpoweroveryouusethattimeinsteadtolistinyourheadoroutloudallthethingsyouareappreciativeofinyourlife.Leteveryredlightbeareminderthatyourlifeandeverymomentinitislledwithreasonstobethankful.7WWW.FLIPMAGAZINE.NETNOVEMBER2014 BYANJEZAANGIEGEGAWhendoessomeoneneedaninspiringquoteTheanswerissimplealwaysInspiringquotescomefromexperiencesresultsandwisdomthatareinheritedtousfrompeoplewhoholdimportantpositionsinlifesladder.Theirgoalistoupliftencouragemendguideandoftenreinforcewhereandwhoweare.Inspirationalquotesholdagreatpowerbecauseoftentheyareassociatedwithlifechangingresultsservingasalightonadarkpath.Hereareafewofmyfavoritequotesthatcomefromsuccessfulandindependentwomenandmenthatspokesoftlyinregardstomattersoftheheart.IveevenincludedsomeofmyownquotesandexcerptsfrommyowncollectionTheBookbyAnjezaAngieGega.InspiringQuotesToKeepYouGoingGraceisGodasaheartsurgeoncrackingopenyourchestremovingyourheart-poisonedasitiswithprideandpain-andreplacingitwithhisown.-MaxLucadoForbeautifuleyeslookforthegoodinothersforbeautifullipsspeakonlywordsofkindnessandforpoisewalkwiththeknowledgethatyouareneveralone.-AudreyHepburnThehungerforloveismuchmoredifculttoremovethanthehungerforbread.-MotherTeresaInordertobeirreplaceableonemustalwaysbedifferent.-CocoChannel8WWW.FLIPMAGAZINE.NETNOVEMBER2014 WithadegreeincommunicationsabackgroundinpsychologyandaninspirationalbookalreadypublishedAnjezaAngieGegaassuresusthatthecoretomakingadifferenceinpeopleslifeismotivationandinspiration.Followingandsharingthecurrentwell-beingandhealthtrendshasallowedhertodojustthat.TokeepupwithauthorAnjezaAngieGegacheckoutherwebsiteatwww.anjeza.comDonttrytobesomeoneyouarenotsoyoudontattractsomeonethatyoudontwant.-AnjezaAngieGegaIhatedeveryminuteoftrainingbutIsaiddontquit.Suffernowandlivetherestofthelifeasachampion.-MuhammadAliIfyouwanttobesuccessfulyoumustrespectoneruleNeverLieToYourself.-PauloCoelhTheglowofonewarmthoughtistomeworthmorethanmoney.-ThomasJeffersonWerelishnewsofourheroesforgettingthatweareextraordinarytosomebodytoo.-HelenHayesInspirationalmessageshavethepowertoenlightenandstrengthenthechoicesandlifeoftheaudiencethatperceivesit.Thereforedontbecheapinusingitknowingthatkindwordscansavealife.IwilllovethelightforitshowsmethewayyetIwillendurethedarknessbecauseitshowsmethestars.-OgMandino9WWW.FLIPMAGAZINE.NETNOVEMBER2014 ByAlexandraKayWilliamsAshumanbeingswhovaluebeautyinthemselvesandothersitisinevitablethatwewillbedenedbyourappearanceac-cordingtosomeoneoranother.Someoneweareinterestedinmaylabelusassexyhotorevencute.AreYouorHotSexyCuteHereisaninsidelookintowhathereallymeanswhenhecallsyousexyhotorcute.Youllbesurprisedtondoutthatitmaynottranslatetowhatyouthink.Whichcatego-rydoyoufallintoorwhichlabelhasbeenusedonyouLetsndoutwhattheytrulythinkofyououtsideofthelockerroomGoodnewsandbadnewsladieshendsyouattractiveBUTyourenotthekindofbeautyhedliketomarry.Whenamandenesyouashothegenerallyislookingforonethinganditsallphysical.Hendsyouattractiveenoughtoshowofftohisfriendsandwalkaroundwithaseyecandybutitmaystopthere.Ifyouareinthisclassicationyoufallinlinewiththesupermodelhewouldalsoliketohaveforanight.Youaretheexceptionbutyourenotcommitmentmaterial.Hetellshisfriendsyourehot.IwasdeeplyoffendedwhenaguyIwasinterestedintoldmethatIwasnthot.IunderstandthatbeautyissubjectivebutIdidntneedtobeinformedthatIwassubparfacetoface.HejustiedhimselfbysayingthatIwasnthotbutIWASsexy.Waitwhatsthedifference10WWW.FLIPMAGAZINE.NETNOVEMBER2014 AlexandraKayWilliamsisalifestylejournalistandscreenwriterfromLosAngelesCalifornia.Whenshesnotwritingorresearchingyoucanndherexploringlocalfoodspotsdancingoutofayogaclassorjustkickingbackwithherfavoritedudes.CongratulationsyouvehookedhimHewantstolockitdownandmakesurenooneelsewillevergetapieceofthissexypie.Youareattractivefunplayfulandbasicallyhisidealwoman.Youhavethecondencethatmakeshimwanttoshowhisfriendshowluckyheistocomehometoyoueverynight.Youaresecurewithyourownbeautyanditshinesthroughtoothers.Hetellshisfriendsyouresexy.Uhohgirlfriendyouareinthefriendzone.Nowpleasedontconfusethiswithhimtellingyouthatyouarecute.Thatisanentirelydifferentstory.Ifamantellsyouthatyouarecuteheissosmittenwithyouthathendsyouridiosyncrasiesadorableandprobablycantgetenoughofthem.Ifhestellinghisfriendsthatyouarecutethenforgethim.Heistellingthemthatyouredoablebutonlyindesperatecircumstances.Ifthathotorsexywomanwalkedbyheddropyouinasecond.PackitupandmoveonThemanwhondsyousexyisprobablyatthecafearoundthecornersodontwasteyourtime.SonowthatweknowwhathethinksofyouareyousatisedwithyourcategoryIfnothowcanwechangeitOrbetteryetcanwechangehowothersperceiveyouLetsassumethatweallwanttobedenedassexy.Sexinessisassubjectiveasbeautybutthereareuniversalqualitiesthatwillhaveanymanorwomanblownaway.Hetellshisfriendsyourecute.PlayfulnessAsexywomaniscarefree.Sheknowshowtoteasejustenoughtokeepthemwantingmore.Thiswomanisfunandexciting.IntelligenceAsexywomanissmart.ThisdoesntnecessarilymeanthatinordertobesexyyouneedtohaveaPHDbutitdoesmeanthatyouneedtohaveaninterestinbetteringyourselfthroughknowledge.ConfdenceAsexywomaniscondent.Sheisnotarrogantnorboastfulbutsheknowsthatsherocksandwontletanyonetellherotherwise.Thiswomanissecureinherownskin.StyleAsexywomaniswellputtogether.Sheknowsherbestfeaturesandhowtoaccentthem.Followthisguideandyouwillhavetheworldeatingoutofthepalmofyourhand.JustthinkPICSPlayfulnessIntelligenceCondenceStyleYouhavetheabilitytoconvinceothershowyouwantbeseenandheard.SogooutthereandshowyourPICSSelesareacceptableonoccasion.11WWW.FLIPMAGAZINE.NETNOVEMBER2014 BYDEVASHREESHIVADEKARThroughoutmyschoolyearstheonlythingIvividlyrememberisbeingteasedforthelargeporesonmyskin.ThatissomethingthathaslatchedontomymemoryforalongtimeandImsuremanyofourreadershavehadsimilarexperiences.Takingcareofyourskinissomethingwedonttalkaboutasoftenassayothercrucialissueslikeobesityordietetc.Butitsdefnitelyanissuethatdeservesourattention.Lovingyourskinandtakingcareofitdoesntmeanshellingoutcopiousamountsofmoneyorspendinghoursatspasitcouldbeassimpleasspendingtimetojustsitandthinkaboutyourself-andgivesomeseriousthought.Apartfromapplyinglotionstakingpillsdrasticallychangingyourdietconsultingnutritioniststhereissomethingthatyoucandoabsolutelyfreeofchargemeditation.Theverybestnaturalskincareoranti-agingmethodsproducebeautythatexudesvitality.Wouldyoulikewrinkle-freeskinthatmakesyoulook10yearsyoungerWouldyouliketoknowhowyoucanhaveskinthatmagnetizespeopleanddrawsoutcomplimentsfromallwhomyouseeThenlookinsideSkinproblemsoftenariseduetofactorsthatareinternalratherthanexternal.Aglowingskinresultsfromregularmeditation.WhyyouaskItssimple.1.Meditationenergizesyourbrain.Meditationwhichteachesyouhowtorestyourmindcausesthevitalenergieswithinyourbodytobecomeunleashed.Justasdailyexerciseconditionsyourbodymeditationdoesthesametoyourbrain.Afterafewweeksofregularpracticeyoullnoticethatyourconcentrationclarityandalertnesshaveimproved.SkinDeepUsingMeditationtoImproveYourSkin12WWW.FLIPMAGAZINE.NETNOVEMBER2014 2.Meditationhelpswithstress.Bloodtestshaveshownthatlong-termpractitionersofmeditationactuallyhavelessstresshormonesthanotherindividuals.Whenyoureconfrontedwithproblemsinyourday-to-daylifewhetherlargeorsmallmeditationwillhelpyouremaincalmandchoosehowyouwanttorespond.3.Meditationhelpsbreakthestress.Literally.Meditationtriggersthebodysabilitytorepairitselfandalsolessensthestressthatcanleadtotroubledskin.Nexttimeyouseeapimplemoleorblackheaddontrushouttothenearestpharmacytogetridofit.Insteadjustsitdowninalotuspositionandtakeafewdeepbreaths.Dothiseverycoupleofhoursandyourskinproblemswillbelonggone.4.Meditationhelpsyouloseweight.OfcourseitwonthelpyousustainaSizeTwowhileyouinhaleapoundoficecreameverynightifonlybutitwillhelpyoufrommindlesslyeatingfoodsthatcreatefatsinturnresultinginweightgain.Ahealthydietwillinfactresultinhealthyglowingskin.Allthatbeingsaidtakeonyournewmeditationroutineslowlyandatyourownpace.Donotrushintoitlikeitssomekindofaneasyx.Propermeditationresultscanonlybeseenonceyoudoitonaregularbasis.Bemindfulofyourwordsandactionsbeawareofwhatyoushoveinyourmouthandatthesametimebecarefulwhenyouarepushingyourselfonthetreadmill.Considermeditationasafreegiftfromtheuniversetoyou.DevashreeShivadekarisaLosAngelesbasedscreenwriteroriginallyfromMumbaiIndia.ShecompletedherBachelorofArtsdegreeinEconomicsfromtheUniversityofMumbaibeforeyingtoNewYorktopursueandsuccessfullycompleteherMasterofFineArtsdegreeinScreenwritingfromtheNewYorkFilmAcademy.DevashreehasbeenwritinglmsandarticlesinLosAngelesforthelasttwoyears.13WWW.FLIPMAGAZINE.NETNOVEMBER2014 ByJoannaKellyPhotographyByShaunYenPhotographywww.shaunyenphotography.comMakeupandHairByKrystleGlennSalonLaFontaine8SimpleTipsforPosinforPicturesIfyouhaveeverwonderedhowsomeluckywomenalwayslookgoodinpicturesyoureabouttolearnhow.Noyoudonthavetobeasu-permodelthatissixfeettallandweighsonepoundnordoyouhavetobeJenniferLawrenceMaximssexiestwomanintheworld2014.IfyouapplythesecretssharedhereyouwilllearntoLOVEphotosofyourself-NoreallyHereare8simpletrickstoenhanceyourphotographicbeautyandstilllooklikeyounoliporequired.1.Ifyouhaveeverwantedtoavoidthedreadedsausage-arminpicturestheeasiestwayistoputyourhandsonyourhips.Thatisntalwaysavailablesothinkaboutmovingyourarmsawayfromyourbodyjustahaireversoslightlypullingyourelbowsawayfromyoursides.Thisshouldstilllooknaturalasthoughyourarmsarejusthangingtherefromyoursidesbutinrealitythisputsalittletensioninthemandkeepseventheskinnieststickfromgettingsquishedintoafabbylog.LooklikeaModelDoDontModelJoannaKelly14WWW.FLIPMAGAZINE.NETNOVEMBER2014 2.IfyouthinkyoumightberelatedtotheHunchbackofNotreDameoryousufferfromslopedshoulder-itisaneasyfxisassimpleasput-tingyourhandsinyourbackpockets.Pullyourelbowsbackbehindyouandtowardeachother.Thishelpsyourpostureaddsmuscletoneandmakeseverythinglookthinner.3.JabbatheHutcalledandwantshisbellyback.Suck.It.In.CantremembertogirdleyourselfLaughThisnotonlymakesyourfacelookhappybutalsonaturallypullsinthosetummymuscles.FeelingfoolishlaughingThinkhowmuchlessfoolishyoullfeelwithatrimtummyinyourpictures.DontDoDoDontModelCathleenRandallModelClaireBermingham15WWW.FLIPMAGAZINE.NETNOVEMBER2014 DoDontDoDont4.DoyourlegsremindyouofchickendrumsticksorPinoc-chiostwigsConverselyeverseenaVegasShowgirlDontbebitterandjealous.Itisunfatteringonsomanylevels.LearnfromtheprosandbendalegAlwaysbendthelegclosesttothecamera.AllyourweightgoesonthestraightlegIrepeatallyourweightgoesonyourstraightleg.Unlessyouarethegreatbooty-lesswonderyouregoingtowanttokeepthestraightlegawayfromcamera.5.WouldyoulikeyourhipstolooklesswideloadandmorehourglassWithyourshoul-derstowardcameraangleyourhipsslightlysooneisjustaweebitclosertothecam-erathantheother.Itcreatescurvesinalltherightplacesnippinginyourwaistwhileallowingjusttherightsoftnesstoyourhips.ModelJoannaKellyModelJoannaDeLane16WWW.FLIPMAGAZINE.NETNOVEMBER2014 DontDoDoDont6.SittingdowninpicturescancreateJell-Omoldsoutofeventhemostshapelyoflegs.Ifyourlegsareuncrossedeverythingattensoutonthechaircreatingtheillusionoffatpancakes.Deliciouswhenpairedwithmaplesyrupbutnotidealforphotos.Toavoidthisplaceyourweightonjustoneleghipbutt-cheek.Crosstheotheroneoverthatcalfontheknee.Thislengthensandleansoutyourlegsbring-ingsexybackfromthehiptoankle.7.DoesyourfacialexpressioninpicturesremindyouofafuneralorstandinginlineattheDMVMostprofessionalmodelslaughthroughaphotoshoottogetgreatsmilingpic-tures.Sogoaheadandgigglelaughsnickerchortleandguffaw.Ifyoucanndawaytomakeyourselflaughyourlifewillbesweeterandsowillyourpictures.Laughterisgoodforyouandtheendresultispho-tosshowingrealemotionandwarmthinsteadoffakesmilesandconstipationface.Socialmediawillthankyouandyouwillnolongerhavetoun-tagyourselffromphotos.ModelCathleenRandallModelClaireBermingham17WWW.FLIPMAGAZINE.NETNOVEMBER2014 DoDont8.Findingyourgoodside.SometimesyouremuggingforthecameraandsometimesyoulooklikeNickNoltesmugshot.Youdratherbesupermodelhotallthetimesodoalittlesleuthingtoseewhatlookslookgoodonyou.Studyyourpicturesthatyouloveandhateandgureoutwhy.Somepeoplelookbetterwiththeirmouthinanopensmilesomebetterwithasmirk.Somelookbettergivingalittleside-eyesomelookbetterstraighton.DoyoulookbetterwhenthecameraisaboveyoureyelineBelowStraightonYoucanalwayspracticewithsomeselesorwithaselessfriendthatwilltakepicturesforyou.JustdontpostthemalltoInstagram.Nobodywantstoseethatmanypicturesofyourface.NotevenifyourlastnameisKardashian.BornandraisedinHoustonTexasandagraduateofNewYorkUniversityJoannaKellynowresidesinLosAngeleswheresheworksasanactressmodelandwriter.Inherfreetimesheenjoyssharingherwisdomwithupandcomingtalentcoachingchildrenofallagesformodelingandacting.Joannaisalsoanavidblogger.TolearnmoreaboutJoannaandherworkcheckoutherwebsiteswww.waitingforlefty.blogspot.comandwww.joannakelly.me.ModelJoannaDeLane18WWW.FLIPMAGAZINE.NETNOVEMBER2014 19WWW.FLIPMAGAZINE.NETNOVEMBER2014 Beingpolitecanbeverysimilartoknowinganintricatedance.Whenyoudontknowwhatyouredoingitiseasytosteponsometoes.Andwhentravelingabroaditiseasytofeellikeyouvepackedtwoleftfeet.Justlikeaballroomdanceresearchandpracticewillhelpyouavoidamisstepbutsometimesyoujusthavetojumpinanddothetwist.SotohelpwiththoseimpromptumomentsthismonthstravelarticleiscalledTheArtoftheExoticPalateTryingandDecliningNewFoodsandwewilltalkaboutaparticularsituationwhenapoliteandgracefuldemeanoristhemostimportantduringmeals.Soenjoyourstoriesandouruniversaltipstohelpkeepyoufedandhappyonyournextvacation.ByAerieRoseTheArtoftheExoticPalateTryingandDecliningNewFoodsTip1BeInquisitiveandopenmindedTasteandtryeverything.Rememberyouareonanadventureyouareopenmindedcuriousandhopingtoturnstrangersintofriendsallaroundtheworld.IfsomeonehasinvitedyouintotheirhomeinvitedyoutoshareamealorevenjustmadearecommendationafterseeingyouhemandhawoverthelunchmenuaccepttheiradviceEvenifitendsupbeingtheworstthingyouveevertastedatleastyouwillhaveanewstorytotellafterwards.LikethetimeIwasencouragedtotrysilkwormsinaKoreanmarketplace.Theywereservedinaclearplasticcupwithsomebrothandatoothpick.HighinproteinIwastold.Iwasabletocrunchafewdownbeforetheygotcoldandtheyreallywerenteventhatbad.OKsomaybetheywerereallygross.ButIatethemandlivedtotellthetaleAndyoucantooTip2TastebutdontwasteSomedishesarerecognizableothersstrange.Somesmellamazingothers...strange.Whentryingnewthingstakesmallportionssoyouwillstillbeabletonishadishevenifitisnottoyourliking.Pleasedotrytonishwhathasbeenserved.YourhostmighthavebeenusingyourvisitasachancetopreparesomespecialtydisheswithexpensiveorhardtondingredientsthatwouldbeashametothrowawayifthecrazyAmericantooktoomuchandcouldntnishit.Rememberifyoulikesomethingyoucanalwaysfollowthetinyrsthelpingwithasecondlargerhelpingprovidedeveryoneelsehasalreadyservedthemselvesaswell.Itisimportanttonotethatwhilefoodshouldneverbewastedoftenleavingoneortwobitesonaplateistheunspokensignalthatyourappetitehasbeensatised.20WWW.FLIPMAGAZINE.NETNOVEMBER2014 Tip3Dontbechildishorimmatureifyouencounterunexpectedunappetizingorvisuallyshockingingredients.MySiciliangrandmothercametoAmericawhenshewas17andshortlyafterarrivinginMarylandshewasinvitedtoacrabfeast.Anyonewhohasevershelledcrabsknowstheyareodduglylittlethingsthatarecookedalive.Shescreamedwhenshesawthemandthoughtshewasbeingmadetoeatagiantspider.Mypointiseveryoneeatsweirdthingsinweirdways.Itsonlyweirdifyouarentusedtoit.Socontainyourgagreexcontrolyoururgetodissectyourmeallikea7thgradebiologylabandkeepyourscreamstoaminimumwhenexploringexoticmeals.Tip4Followyourhostslead.WheninRomedoastheRomansdoPreparingandeatingfoodsanddrinkslikethelocalswillgiveyouachancetotasteandlearnaboutanewthingoranewwaytoenjoyanoldthing.Taketeaforexample.Everyonehasawaytheyliketodrinktheirteawithlemonhoneysugarmilkhotcoldetc.WhenyouretravelingdontdrinkteathewayYOUliketodrinkitdrinkitthewaythelocalsdo.WhenyoureinEnglandtaketeawithmilkandsugarandapieceofshortbread.WhenyoureinTurkeytakeitstronginatinyclearglasswithtoomuchsugar.InChinaDumpsomeleavesinacupswirlthemaroundandspendtherestofthetimetryingtogureouthowtheydrinktheteasogracefullywithoutgettingmouthfulsoftealeaves.AndthencallmeandtellmewhatyouvelearnedbecauseIstillhaventgureditoutTip5IfyouabsolutelycannotattendorcannoteatadishservedsayNoassoonaspossiblepolitelyrmlyandperhapsuptothreetimes.Beingapickyeaterorhavingsomethingelsesortofplannedthatnightarenotreallyacceptablereasonstodecline.ButifyouknowthatfriedcricketsandbloodpuddingwillbeonthemenuandyoujustwillNOTbeabletonavigateagracefuldeclineatthedinertablethenperhapsdecliningtheinitialinvitationisyourbestchoice.Ifyoudohavetodeclinedoitassoonaspossible.AsinDONOTacceptandlaterchangeyourmindanddenitelyDONOTacceptandthenstandthemup.Someacceptablereasonstodeclinemightbebecauseofknownallergiesorstrictdietaryrestrictionsorbecausenon-negotiabletravelplanshavealreadybeenbooked.LikeforexampleifyouareavegetarianhikingthroughtheGobiDesertandaMongoliannomadicfamilyinvitesyouintotheirGertosharetheireveningmealyoucanbecertainitwillbe99comprisedofvariouscutsofgoatmeatorgansandcheeseproductswithperhapsoneoniondicedandboiledinyourhonor.Asavegetarianyoumightnditeasiertooerthemsomesweetmintteaandcontinueonyourway.Sotorecapthedinnerdancecanbeintricatebuttherearealwayssomegeneralguidelinestokeepinmindtohelpnavigateanymealwithoutsteppingontoomanytoes.Andwhenindoubtsaypleaseandthankyouandmakeyourmammaproud.GoodluckandenjoyBuonAppetiteHaveyoueverhadtheurgetojustdropwhatyouweredoingpackabagandsetoutonanadventureFiveyearsandovertwodozencoun-trieslaterAeriRoseisproofthatexcitementindependenceanddiscoveryawaitthosewhoareboldenoughtosayyestolifescraziestchoices.WhennotexploringtheworldwithherlittlegreybackpackAeriRosecanbefoundlivinganomadiclifestyletravelingtheUnitedStatesasanartistandentrepreneur.TofollowAeriRoseonallheradventurescheckheroutonlineataerirose.comortravelingwithaeri.comoronFacebookatwww.facebook.comtravelingwithaeri.21WWW.FLIPMAGAZINE.NETNOVEMBER2014 FashionForAllSeasonsStyleForAnyTimeOfYearAnEditorialandInterviewwithDesignerAeriRose22WWW.FLIPMAGAZINE.NETNOVEMBER2014 PHOTOGRAPHYBYANDREWNIMRODHAIRANDMAKEUPBYANGELALAROSEWWW.ANGELALAROSE.COMMODELALEXISNICHOLSWWW.ALEXISNICHOLS.COMQHowdidyoucomeupwiththeideaforthiseditorialAWehavebeenexpressingnatureinartsincecavedrawings.Itonlyseemsnaturaltometoexploretheorganiclinesandnaturalowoftheenvironmentinourclothing.Thereisntacolororshapethatcantbefoundinnaturesonatureisreallyalimitlesssourceofinspirationandideas.Ichosethefourseasonsasawaytoexplorethevarietyofnaturewithsomethingofalooselylimitingfactortohelpfocusmythoughts.QOnceyouhadtheideahowdidyougoaboutcreatingwiththedesignsforeachseasonATheouttforSpringisapinkbloomingdaisy.Itisacottonsun-dressthatishand-dyedusingadipdripdyetechniqueIhavebeenworkingwithforsometime.Summerisabloomingrose.Itisathreepieceensembleaskirtwithwireedgingtogiveitshapeandstructureastraplessttedtopandagreenrosehipvestdesignedtomimicthetinygreenleavesfoundatthebaseofaroseblossom.Fallwasfocusedondisplayingthevibrantcolorpaletteoffallleaves.FortheWinterlookIwantedtoexplorefrostandthehibernationthattreesgothroughinthecold.TherewasplentyofwhiteIceQueenlookingpiecesinherouttbuttheaccessoriesinthislookwerereallyimportanttome.Theyarebrittlebrownbranchingpiecesofjewelrydesignedtomimicthebearvulnerablebranchesoftreesinthewinter.QHowdidcolorandfabricplayapartinthedesignforeachseasonAWhenbuildingupthelayersofacostumecouturepieceyourworkishalfdesignandhalfsculpture.Manyofthefabricswerechosenbasedonthetextureanddimensiontheywouldlendtomydesignconcept.QYourchoicesforthesummerseasonaredarkerthanmostwouldexpect.WhatbroughtthatonANaturereally.Inourmindssummerisbrightboldandneonbecauseneongoesgreatwithournewstoreboughthighlightsandspraytan.Butlookaroundyounextsummer.Thenaturalworldisatitsfullestandmostlush.TheSpringowerscanbepastelyoungandfreshbutSummerowersarevibranttropicalandcondentunderthesteadysunbeamsofeachhotsummerday.23WWW.FLIPMAGAZINE.NETNOVEMBER2014 QAsadesignerandfashionistawhatisyourfavoriteseasonAIloveSpring.Itisfreshandnew.Itstartsoutchillydragginginthetailendofwinterfashionsandouterwearisstillaconsideration.Butlikeabutteryemergingfromacocoonwesteadilyshedlayerstorevealthefuncolorfulinspirationsthatwillcarryusthroughthesummer.QYourefertoyourcompanyasaCostumeCoutureBoutique.WhatdoesthatmeanandwhydoyouclassifyyourselfinsuchawayASowhenyouthinkaboutthedifferencebetweencostumesandclothingthewordcostumeimpliesthatoneisdressingspecicallytolooklikeadifferentpersonorthingthankyouMerriamWebster.Dressingtolookdifferentthanwhatonefeelsistheirnaturalstate.Ialsousetheworldcostumetoimplythatmylooksaremoreheavilyinuencedbyparticularanduniquesourcesofinspirationanddesignedtohaveagreatdealofvisualsimilaritytotheirinspirations.ItdoesnotmeanthatthesepiecescanbewornonceayearattheworkHalloweenpartyorthatweirdConventionyournewboyfriendwantstotakeyouto.Ifyoulikewhatyouseewearitwheneveryouwant24WWW.FLIPMAGAZINE.NETNOVEMBER2014 Couturereallyjustmeansthebusinessofdesigningmakingandsellingfashionablecustom-madewomensclothingagainthankyouMerriamWebsterwhichisexactlywhatmysmallboutiquedoes.SoIamcarvingoutatinylittlenicheinthefashionindustryproducinghigh-qualityhand-madetheme-specicwomenscoutureandready-wearpieces.VivaLaHand-MadeRevolutionQHowandwhydidyougetintocostumingAWomenhaveaweirdrelationshipwithclothing.Somearemoreadventurousandexplorativethanothersbutforthemostpartshoppingforeverydaywearisabittersweetchore.Welovenewclothesbutthereisalwaysabitofadragonourinspiration.WhatcutsandcolorsareinseasonWhatisproperforouragepositionsocietiesstandardsWithcostumingthatisdifferent.Womenfeelfreertochoosewhattheyloveandnotwhattheythinktheyshouldbewearing.Theyexploredifferentsilhouettesthatmakethemlookandfeelbeautiful.Theychoosecolorsthatmakethembeautifulandthemestheyndfun.Ilovedressingwomenincostumesbecausetheyallowthemselvestofallmadlyinlovewithwhattheyarewearing.IjustwishIcouldndawaytohelpthemcarrythatsameenergyintotheireverydaylooksQYourdesignswererecentlyfeaturedinBaltimoreFashionWeek.WhatwasitlikeseeingyourdesignsontherunwayASoAwesomeItisonethingtohaveavisioninyourheadortoseetheclothingsittingstifyonthedressformsbutonceapieceisonamodelshebreatheslifeintoit.Thatiswhenadesignerreallygetstoseethisideaassheenvisionedit.Andthatswhenshegetstosharethatvisionwithothers.FortheCirqueDeCrufashionshowIsenteachmodeldowntherunwaywithaballoontolendafuncarnivalairtotheevening.TheyhadsomuchfunwiththeballoonsIwasworriedthatitwouldbeanencumbrancethatwouldmess25WWW.FLIPMAGAZINE.NETNOVEMBER2014 uptheirstrutonthecatwalkbutallthemodelsgotsointoitwhichwassogreatandreallylledthecollectionwithexactlytheenergyIwashopingfor.QWhatsnextandwheredoyouseeAeriRosegoingAAtAeriRosewelikeblurringtheboundarybetweenhighfashionandyourimagination.Wewanttohelpourcustomershavefunwiththeirclothes.TothatendourmostrecentcollectionCirqueDeCruwasaready-wearcollectioninspiredby1940stravelingentertainersandcircusfolk.Itiseasytogodowntherabbitholewithacircusthemebutwereallyrefrainedfromgoingoverthetopinordertomakethisfunirtythememoreaccessibletomorepeople.Wehopetocontinuetomaintainthisbalancegoingtooverthetopcostumecouturetokeepourimaginationssharpandthenpullingbacktoirtontheedgesofinterestingthemesandhistoricalperiodsforinspirationforready-wearcollections.QHowcanourreaderskeepupwithyouandyourworkATheycanfollowmeontwitterTravelingAerionFacebookwww.facebook.comaeriroseoronlineatwww.aerirose.com.IamespeciallyactiveontheFacebookpagepostingnewshowsnewdesignsandfunideasprettyregularly.ThankstoAeriRoseforallowingustofeatureherworkandbesuretofollowherforregularupdates26WWW.FLIPMAGAZINE.NETNOVEMBER2014 27WWW.FLIPMAGAZINE.NETNOVEMBER2014 28WWW.FLIPMAGAZINE.NETNOVEMBER2014 29WWW.FLIPMAGAZINE.NETNOVEMBER2014 TutorialTimeByMakeupArtistandHairstylistAngelaLaRosewww.angelalarose.comPhotographybyHarveyBranmanwww.harveybranman.comModelAlexisNicholswww.alexisnichols.comSTEPONEApplyfoundationbbcreamortintedmoisturizer.NoteIfyouwantmorecoveragestartbybufngonalightlayeroffoundation.YOULLNEED-FoundationBbcreamortintedmoisturizer-Concealer-Powderblush-Mascara-Bronzer-Highlighter-Browcolor-SoftbrowneyeshadowDarkerbrowneyeshadow-LiquidEyeliner-BoldcoloredLipstick-FoundationBrushorasponge-Powderbrush-Contourbrush-Eyeshadowbrushes-Fakelashesoptional-DarkEyelinerpenciloptionalMakeupforaNightOutSTEPTWOApplyconcealerundereyearoundnoseandblemishes.STEPTHREEApplybronzerwithabigpowderbrushtogiveyouanalloversunnyglow.30WWW.FLIPMAGAZINE.NETNOVEMBER2014 STEPFOURApplypowderedrosycoloredblushtoyourcheeksfocusingontheapplesofyourcheeksandblend.Agoodmarkistosmileandstartonthehighpointofyourcheekblendingbackwardstoblendinthecontour.STEPFIVEForeyeshadowputsoftbrownshadowinthecreaseandsmokeitupintoyoureyelidbutnotallthewaytothebrowbone.NoteAbiggereyeshadowbrushmightworkbestforthisifpossible.STEPSIXThenuseanevendarkertonewithasmallercondensedbrushandapplytothecreaseofyoureyelidagain.DothisinanupwardmotionlikeasidewaysV.Youcanalsotakeadarkeyelinerpencilandsmudgeitonyourlidandblendupandoutward.STEPSEVENUsingaliquidlinerorpowderlinerrunyourbrushalongthelashlinestartinginthemiddletowardstheendoftheeye.Keepaddinglayersifyouneedtheendtobethicker.NoteForthetailoftheeyelineryoumayneedtoholdthecornerofyoureyeupwardandfollowwiththeliner.Youwantittobethinnestintheinnerpartofyoureyetowardsyournose.Indtiltingmyheadbackiseasiestsomyeyesarelookingdownwithoutmestretchingthemorclosingthemcompletely.STEPEIGHTAddmascaraandfakelashesifyourefeelingextrafancy.STEPNINEPutonyourhottestboldestcolorlipstickyoucanfnd.Thinkredhotpinkmauveetc.STEPTENApplypowdertoyourentirefacetosetitandyoureready31WWW.FLIPMAGAZINE.NETNOVEMBER2014 Thisdessertisoneofournewestdiscoveries.Itisfastandeasyandyoucanmakeitaheadofmeandleaveitinthefridgeunlitisreadytoserve.Itisalilespecialbecauseitisnottradionalchocolatemousse.ItismadefromavocadoNowyoumightthinkhowcanyoumakechocolatemoussewithavocadoThatsdoesntsoundverydessert-liketome.Butitcanbeandifyoumakesuretouseripeandwemeanreallyripeavocadoesyouaregoingtocreateasupercreamychocolatemousseandpeoplewontevenbeabletotellthatitismadefromavocadoes.ItishealthyandtastyatthesamemeCHOCOLATEMOUSSEWITHBERRIES32WWW.FLIPMAGAZINE.NETNOVEMBER2014 INGREDIENTS2ripeavocadosdidwemenonthattheyshouldbeveryripe3tablespoonspurecocoapowder1teaspoonvanillasugaryoucanusevanillaessencetoo3tablespoonshoney2tablespoonsmilktosoenAhandfulfreshorfrozenberriesDIRECTIONSSlicetheavocadoesinhalfandremovethestone.Scooptheavocadooutofthepeelandintoafoodprocessor.Mixunlitissoandsmooth.Addcocoapowdervanillasugarhoneyandmixagain.Youmightneedtoscrapedownthesidesandmixagainafewmes.Addmilktomakethemoussealilesoer.Mixagain.Scrapeoutthemousseintoniceservingglassesorbowlsandplaceinthefridgellyouwanttoservethem.Fordecoraonyoucanaddfreshorfrozenberries.Soeasyandsoyummy.-EnjoyRecipebyAyoeandBobLaifromtheircookbookThreeMoreBitesPresentsCozyCookingwww.threemorebites.com2-4SERVINGSExperimentwithRecipestoFindWhatYouLikewithBob33WWW.FLIPMAGAZINE.NETNOVEMBER2014 QAWewouldlovetohearfromyouSendyourreaderquestionsandcommentstoeditorfipmagazine.netandyoucoucouldbeinournextissueQMyboyfriendandIwillbetogetherforourfrstholidaysthisyearbutwecantde-cidewhosefamilyweshouldbegoingtohisormine.HelpAVisitingfamilyfortheholidaysisalwaysabalancingactespeciallywhenyourfamilygrowswithanewrelationship.Iamguessingthatyourfamiliesdontliveincloseenoughproximitythatyoucouldvisitbothfortheholidays.Youcouldalwaysarrangetoseeoneofyourfamiliesthisyearandtheothernextyear.Ifthatworksforyoukeeptherotationgoingsoneithersidefeelsliketheyaremissingout.YoucouldalsoscheduleonefamilyfortheholidaysandtheotherfamilyforaNewYearscelebration.Seeifeitherofthosesolutionscouldworkforyourboyfriendandyourfamilies.Themostimportantthingistoreachacompromisethatworksbestforeveryone.QIrecentlybroke-upwithmyboy-friendwhoalsoworksatthesamecom-panyasme.Itisveryawkwardseeinghiminthehallsandmeetings.HowcanImoveonwhenheisstillhereAIunderstandtheawkwardness.DoyouknowifhefeelssimilarlyawkwardseeingyouatworkChancesarehedoes.Youmaynotlikeitbutthebestwaytocleartheairandthetensionistotalktohimaboutit.Tellhimwhatyouarefeelingandwhy.Findoutifheisfeelingthesame.Worktogethertocomeupwithasolutiontorandomlyseeingeachotherbecausenomatterwhatyoubothareonthejobandneedtofocusonworkandnoteachother.Cleartheairandmoveonfromtherela-tionshipcleanlyandIthinkthatwillhelpreduceanytensionyoustillmayfeelatsee-inghimaround.34WWW.FLIPMAGAZINE.NETNOVEMBER2014 35WWW.FLIPMAGAZINE.NETNOVEMBER2014 ThisFLiPpagebroughttoyouby.